In modern colloquial and youth language, a term for a man who behaves in a particularly decent, fair, or loyal way. It is an expression of high appreciation for a good deed.
example
Er hat mir sein letztes Geld geliehen, ein echter Ehrenmann!
He lent me his last bit of money—what a real stand-up guy!
Usage tips
Compound word
The word is a compound of 'die Ehre' (honor) and 'der Mann' (man). So it literally describes a man who has honor or acts honorably.
EXAMPLE
Er gilt im Dorf als wahrer Ehrenmann.
He is considered a true man of honor in the village.
Register and style
The meaning depends heavily on the context. In youth language, it is modern, positive praise. In more formal or literary contexts, it describes a man with traditional values such as decency and reliability.
EXAMPLE
Danke für die Hilfe, du bist ein Ehrenmann!
Thanks for the help, you're a stand-up guy!
Colloquial use
In modern colloquial language, 'Ehrenmann' (stand-up guy) is often used as an exclamation or as a predicate noun to comment directly on a fair or loyal deed.
EXAMPLE
Dass du auf mich gewartet hast, war eine richtige Ehrenmann-Aktion.
The fact that you waited for me was a real stand-up-guy move.
Traditional use
In its traditional meaning, the word is often used in fixed phrases such as 'ein Ehrenmann der alten Schule' (an old-school man of honor) or in connection with a promise that has been given.
EXAMPLE
Er war ein Ehrenmann der alten Schule und bezahlte seine Schulden immer pünktlich.
He was an old-school man of honor and always paid his debts on time.
Compare with
antonym
Ehrenmann vs Verräter
traitor
'der Verräter' and 'der Ehrenmann' are clearly opposed in how they are judged. A 'Verräter' acts disloyally and abuses trust. An 'Ehrenmann' acts decently, fairly, and reliably. Today, 'Ehrenmann' can be used colloquially as praise, but it can also more traditionally mean a man of honor. So the contrast is: someone who breaks trust is a traitor; someone who behaves loyally and correctly can be considered an Ehrenmann.
Ehrenmann
Mein Bruder hat den verlorenen Geldbeutel zurückgebracht; er ist wirklich ein Ehrenmann.
My brother returned the lost wallet; he really is a stand-up guy.
Verräter
Niemand wollte dem Verräter noch wichtige Informationen anvertrauen.
No one wanted to trust the traitor with important information anymore.