To deliberately degrade, shame, or violate someone's dignity. This often happens in front of other people in order to expose the person concerned.
example
Der Chef hat ihn vor allen Kollegen wegen eines kleinen Fehlers gedemütigt.
The boss humiliated him in front of all his colleagues because of a small mistake.
Usage tips
Word family
The verb 'demütigen' (to humiliate / to humble) is derived from the noun 'die Demut' (humility) and the adjective 'demütig' (humble). It literally means to 'make someone humble'.
EXAMPLE
Er zeigte große Demut nach seinem Sieg.
He showed great humility after his victory.
Context clue
The meaning changes completely depending on whether the verb is used reflexively or not. Without 'sich' (oneself), it is a negative action toward another person. With 'sich', it describes a personal, often spiritual attitude.
EXAMPLE
Er demütigte seinen Gegner nach dem Spiel.
He humiliated his opponent after the game.
Sentence structure and use
In the meaning 'jemanden erniedrigen' (to degrade someone), the verb always needs an accusative object. The structure is: subject (person doing the humiliating) humbles/humiliates object (person being humiliated).
EXAMPLE
Sie fühlte sich durch seine Worte zutiefst gedemütigt.
She felt deeply humiliated by his words.
Reflexive use
The reflexive form 'sich demütigen' (to humble oneself) is often used with the preposition 'vor' (before) and a person or authority in the dative. This expresses respect or submission.
EXAMPLE
Der Ritter demütigte sich vor seinem König.
The knight humbled himself before his king.
Compare with
near_synonym
demütigen vs verletzen
to injure / hurt / violate
'verletzen' and 'demütigen' can both have to do with emotional pain. 'verletzen' is more general: words or actions can make someone sad, disappointed, or offended. 'demütigen' is stronger. It means that someone is deliberately made to feel small, shamed, or attacked in their dignity, often in front of other people. So not every hurtful remark is a humiliation. 'demütigen' fits especially when power, intention, and public exposure play a role.
demütigen
Der Trainer demütigt den Spieler vor der ganzen Mannschaft.
The coach humiliates the player in front of the whole team.
verletzen
Bitte verletz deinen Kollegen nicht mit solchen Witzen.
Please don't hurt your colleague with jokes like that.