Describes behavior that is respectful, courteous, and considerate toward other people. It is expressed through good manners and a friendly way of speaking.
example
Es ist höflich, älteren Menschen im Bus einen Sitzplatz anzubieten.
It is polite to offer older people a seat on the bus.
Usage tips
Word structure
The word 'höflich' (polite) comes from 'der Hof' (the court), the residence of a king or prince. It originally described the behavior that was customary at court. The related noun is 'die Höflichkeit' (politeness).
EXAMPLE
Gute Manieren und Höflichkeit sind im Berufsleben wichtig.
Good manners and politeness are important in professional life.
Word formation
The opposite of 'höflich' (polite) is formed simply with the prefix 'un-': 'unhöflich' (impolite/rude). This prefix is used with many adjectives to express negation.
EXAMPLE
Es ist unhöflich, jemanden beim Sprechen zu unterbrechen.
It is impolite to interrupt someone while they are speaking.
Sentence structure
A very common and useful construction is 'Es ist höflich, etwas zu tun' (It is polite to do something). You can use it to formulate general rules for good behavior.
EXAMPLE
Es ist höflich, „Danke“ und „Bitte“ zu sagen.
It is polite to say 'thank you' and 'please.'
Typical collocations
'Höflich' (polite) is often combined with verbs of communication, for example 'höflich fragen' (to ask politely), 'höflich antworten' (to answer politely), or 'höflich grüßen' (to greet politely).
EXAMPLE
Auch wenn er anderer Meinung war, blieb er immer höflich.
Even though he had a different opinion, he always remained polite.
Compare with
near_synonym · confusable
höflich vs nett
nice
'nett' and 'höflich' both describe a pleasant way of dealing with other people. 'nett' tends to mean that a person seems friendly and likable. 'höflich' mainly describes behavior: someone says please and thank you, speaks respectfully, and follows good manners. You can be polite without seeming especially nice. Learners can easily confuse the words because polite behavior often also seems nice. As a guide: 'nett' is more about the personal impression, while 'höflich' is more about respect and manners.
höflich
Vor dem Termin begrüßt der Kunde die Mitarbeiterin höflich.
Before the appointment, the customer politely greets the employee.
nett
Hannes war sehr nett, als er mir wegen der Arbeit geholfen hat.
Hannes was very nice when he helped me with the work.