A word borrowed from English for a lover. It refers to a person with whom someone has a sexual or romantic relationship, often one that is not the official partnership.
example
Sie hat sich heimlich mit ihrem Lover getroffen.
She secretly met up with her lover.
Usage tips
Origin and register
'Lover' is a word borrowed directly from English. It is mainly used in colloquial language and often has a slightly informal or sensationalistic tone.
EXAMPLE
In der Zeitschrift gab es eine Klatschgeschichte über die Schauspielerin und ihren neuen Lover.
The magazine had a gossip story about the actress and her new lover.
Nuance of meaning
The word 'Lover' almost always refers to a person in a secret or unofficial romantic relationship, an affair. It is normally not used for a steady partner or husband.
EXAMPLE
Er hat herausgefunden, dass seine Frau einen Lover hat.
He found out that his wife has a lover.
Grammatical use
Although it is an English word, 'Lover' is declined in German like a normal masculine noun. For example, it takes an '-s' in the genitive.
EXAMPLE
Sie hat alle Nachrichten ihres Lovers gelöscht.
She deleted all of her lover's messages.
Compare with
near_synonym · confusable
Lover vs Freund
friend / boyfriend
'der Freund' and 'der Lover' can both refer to a man in a close relationship, but they sound very different. 'der Freund' can be either a good male friend or the male partner in a romantic relationship. The context has to show which meaning is intended. 'der Lover' means more like a lover and emphasizes the romantic or sexual relationship. The word sounds colloquial and often not as official as 'Freund' or 'Partner'. There is a risk of confusion because 'Freund' can also be romantic, but 'Lover' is not simply a normal buddy.
Lover
In dem Film hat die Sängerin einen geheimen Lover in Paris.
In the film, the singer has a secret lover in Paris.
Freund
Ihr Freund holt sie heute Abend vom Bahnhof ab.
Her boyfriend is picking her up from the station this evening.