The act of forgiving someone for a mistake, a wrong, or an offense and giving up resentment or revenge.
example
Nach dem langen Streit war die Vergebung ein wichtiger Schritt zur Versöhnung.
After the long argument, forgiveness was an important step toward reconciliation.
Usage tips
Word structure
'Die Vergebung' (forgiveness) comes from the verb 'vergeben' (to forgive). This consists of the prefix 'ver-' and the verb 'geben' (to give). The ending '-ung' turns it into a feminine noun.
EXAMPLE
Es fiel ihm schwer, seinem Freund zu vergeben.
It was hard for him to forgive his friend.
Fixed expression
When you ask someone to forgive you, you use the fixed expression 'um Vergebung bitten' (to ask for forgiveness). The preposition 'um' is a fixed part of this expression.
EXAMPLE
Nach dem Streit hat er sie angerufen, um Vergebung zu bitten.
After the argument, he called her to ask for forgiveness.
Dative construction
When forgiveness is granted, the person who is forgiven is in the dative. Typical verbs are 'jemandem Vergebung schenken' (to give someone forgiveness) or 'jemandem Vergebung gewähren' (to grant someone forgiveness).
EXAMPLE
Sie konnte ihm seine Untreue nicht vergeben und schenkte ihm keine Vergebung.
She could not forgive him for his infidelity and gave him no forgiveness.
Religious context
The word 'Vergebung' (forgiveness) often has a strong religious or spiritual meaning. A very common collocation in this context is 'die Vergebung der Sünden' (the forgiveness of sins).
EXAMPLE
Im Gebet bat er um die Vergebung seiner Sünden.
In prayer, he asked for the forgiveness of his sins.
Compare with
near_synonym · confusable
Vergebung vs Entschuldigung
apology / excuse
'die Entschuldigung' and 'die Vergebung' are both connected to a mistake or an offense. 'die Entschuldigung' is what the person who did something wrong says. 'die Vergebung' is the forgiveness by the other person, or the request for it. 'Vergebung' sounds stronger and more serious than 'Entschuldigung' and is more appropriate for major mistakes, guilt, or very personal situations. The words can be confused because after an apology, people often hope for forgiveness. In short: an apology comes from the wrongdoer; forgiveness comes from the person who was hurt.
Vergebung
Nach dem langen Streit hofft sie auf die Vergebung ihrer Freundin.
After the long argument, she hopes for her friend's forgiveness.
Entschuldigung
Nach dem Essen bittet Mehmet seine Mutter um Entschuldigung.