To find a positive or appealing aspect in a person, thing, or situation, often despite negative circumstances.
example
Ich kann diesem kalten, nebligen Wetter wirklich nichts abgewinnen.
I really can't find anything appealing in this cold, foggy weather.
Usage tips
Separable verb
'Abgewinnen' (to find appeal in / to win from) is a separable verb with the prefix 'ab-'. In a main clause, 'ab' comes at the end of the sentence.
EXAMPLE
Er gewinnt der Situation sogar etwas Positives ab.
He even finds something positive in the situation.
Dative construction
This verb is always used with a dative object. The dative indicates the person or thing from which you gain something or in which you find something positive.
EXAMPLE
Ich kann dem langen Winter einfach nichts abgewinnen.
I simply can't find anything appealing in the long winter.
Common negation
In the meaning 'einen positiven Aspekt finden' (to find a positive aspect), the verb is very often negated, usually in the form 'einer Sache nichts abgewinnen können' (to be unable to find anything appealing in something).
EXAMPLE
Der lauten Musik auf dem Festival konnte sie nichts abgewinnen.
She couldn't find anything appealing in the loud music at the festival.
Typical collocations
In the context of competitions, 'abgewinnen' is often combined with small successes against a strong opponent, e.g. 'einen Punkt abgewinnen' (to win a point from), 'einen Vorteil abgewinnen' (to gain an advantage from), or 'ein Lächeln abgewinnen' (to get a smile from).
EXAMPLE
Trotz seiner strengen Art konnte sie ihm ein Lächeln abgewinnen.
Despite his strict manner, she was able to get a smile from him.
Compare with
antonym
abgewinnen vs verlieren
to lose
'verlieren' and 'abgewinnen' can form a contrast in a competition or dispute. Someone who loses is defeated and gives something up, for example points or an advantage. Someone who wins something from an opponent receives or takes something from them. 'Abgewinnen' is more specific than 'gewinnen': it does not just say that you win, but that you take something from the opponent. So the contrast is not always about an entire game, but often about a particular advantage or point.
abgewinnen
Nach langem Kampf gewinnt die Spielerin ihrer Gegnerin einen Satz ab.
After a long battle, the player wins a set from her opponent.
verlieren
Er verliert im Turnier gleich zwei wichtige Punkte.
He loses two important points right away in the tournament.