To behave toward a person in an unfriendly, cool, and distant way, making contact or approach difficult.
example
Auf meine freundliche Frage reagierte er nur mit einem abweisenden Nicken.
He responded to my friendly question only with a dismissive nod.
Usage tips
Word formation
'Abweisend' is the present participle of the separable verb 'abweisen' (to reject), which means 'zurückweisen' (to turn away / reject) or 'ablehnen' (to refuse). This basic meaning of rejecting can be found in both uses of the adjective.
EXAMPLE
Der Türsteher musste leider einige Gäste abweisen.
Unfortunately, the bouncer had to turn away some guests.
Sentence structure with preposition
When describing whom someone behaves dismissively toward, you use the preposition 'gegenüber' with the dative.
EXAMPLE
Sie war grundlos abweisend gegenüber ihren neuen Nachbarn.
She was dismissive toward her new neighbors for no reason.
Use in compounds
In the meaning of 'not absorbing a substance', 'abweisend' is almost always used as the second part of a compound adjective. The best-known examples are 'wasserabweisend' (water-repellent) and 'schmutzabweisend' (dirt-repellent).
EXAMPLE
Für die Wanderung brauchst du eine schmutzabweisende Hose.
For the hike, you need dirt-repellent pants.
Typical collocations
When 'abweisend' describes a person, it is often combined with nouns such as 'Haltung' (attitude), 'Blick' (look), 'Antwort' (answer), or 'Verhalten' (behavior).
EXAMPLE
Er gab mir nur eine kurze, abweisende Antwort.
He gave me only a short, dismissive answer.
Compare with
antonym
abweisend vs offen
open
'offen' and 'abweisend' are often opposites when describing people. An open person seems ready for contact, conversations, or new ideas. A dismissive person seems cool, distant, or unfriendly, making it hard for others to connect with them. 'offen' tends to invite conversation, while 'abweisend' tends to keep others at a distance. Here, the contrast concerns the attitude toward other people.
abweisend
Bei der Besprechung wirkte Tim abweisend und sagte fast nichts.
During the meeting, Tim seemed dismissive and said almost nothing.
offen
Auf dem Amt blieb die Mitarbeiterin freundlich und offen für unsere Fragen.
At the government office, the employee remained friendly and open to our questions.